If god loves us then why does he send us to hell for not obeying his words ?

God doesn't expect perfection, but He wants us to not knowingly disobey those commandments because He gave the ultimate gift to the world by sending His one and only Son to die for the whole world's sins and what He asks in return is for you to believe, spread the word of how Jesus died and rose from the dead so we can go to heaven because we all are sinners. How can you question His love for us if He sent his one and only Son to live a perfect life without sin, and be subjected to the suffering He did, carrying the cross you are about to die on by yourself, being mocked until His death, no person would put their son or daughter through that, but God did because He loves us and believing and following what He put in the bible can't be too much to ask for eternity in heaven, God also forgives His grace is neverending